“I run a company and even though the wheels are turning I feel like I’m either at a crossroads or a roadblock. Despite the company doing well I’m still feeling like something isn’t quite right. I know this seems like I’m asking you to read my mind! But as a fellow fan of the GROW Method I thought you might have some concrete thoughts on what to do in my situation.”

A response from Emily Aldrich

I would never ignore feeling uncertain about successes, and yet this is a common feeling among people in your position. The most successful people can end up feeling like there is nowhere left to move. As an executive coach, I see how essential it is that business leaders find excitement in their work.

One really simple approach to get started is to update your CV. What sounds like procrastination actually helps you get beyond the feeling of the “blank page” that you’re figuratively feeling. By looking at your employment history, you’ll appreciate how you got to this point and maybe even get the ball rolling for your next step.

Nevertheless, moving elsewhere or starting a new company won’t always be the right answer. If you’ve looked at your CV and you find yourself uninspired by it, move a little outside your comfort zone.

Recently, I had the privilege to join the Wadham Experience’s 2026 cohort. Oxford University runs this programme every year. It is a leadership retreat where CEOs and intellectual communities come together to discuss ideas and learn from each other. Wadham was a fabulous way to meet new people and brainstorm with them (I detail my experience here). I came away from the week-long experience feeling intellectually refreshed. I found that talking to peers across industries helps to question the assumptions we make about success. It also pushes us into thinking about new ways to achieve it.

The Wadham Experience is just one of many programmes and experiences you can make. You can also start smaller. Consider joining a group of peers who understand the challenges of your work but might provide a different perspective. Niche and non-business university programmes like learning about the history of art could help challenge how you see your role. You are also welcome to create your own experience! Bring together a group of people you admire for a loosely guided weekend of reading, discussion, and honest conversations.

Whichever option you choose, most important is that you make the time and take it seriously. Online courses are a great way to keep involved and interested without the obstacle of geography. But it can also be tempting to multitask while you learn! If the only way to avoid doing the laundry is to attend in person, be honest with yourself. Make the trip!

Good luck!